How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back The Smart Way

While the end of a relationship is never a pleasant experience, it's not the end of the world. It may seem like everything you were planning on has come unglued and you're at the end of your rope with no safety net in sight, there are ways to make even the worst breakup turn around and get an ex boyfriend back. Now is not the time to be impulsive, however. If you go about things the wrong way you could end up costing yourself the future you're hoping for - and even little mistakes count. If you want to set yourself up to succeed, you need to have a plan in place that can make a devastating decision turn out alright in the end. Look closely at the points below to learn how to get an ex boyfriend back.

- First Things First - Don't Make Waves:

While it's often easier to rock the boat and try to "get even" that's the worst move you can make if you're hoping to get back together with an ex. If you still want a relationship with your ex, revenge should be the last thing on your mind. With that being said, you do need to plan your moves carefully. Before you can move in ANY direction you need to understand that your relationship has ended. While it may be easy in theory, you shouldn't discount the power of denial. Coming to grips with what has happened will get you a lot farther on your path than refusing to believe it.

Once acceptance has kicked in (or even before, depending on how long it takes) you need to break away cleanly from any contact you have with your ex-boyfriend. It doesn't matter if your contact is limited to Facebook or instant messenger - everything should be stopped immediately following the breakup. It's only by removing yourself from the quagmire of communication with an ex-boyfriend that can propel you forward and get you on your way to achieving your goals.

- Have a Mental Makeover:

Breaking away from the breakup blues can be a challenge of immense proportions but now is the time to conquer your inner demons. Your best plan of attack is to keep yourself busy with any positive distraction that crosses your mind. Whether you take up knitting or join a softball league, you need to get out there and avoid the temptation to sit at home alone with nothing but your thoughts for company.

Any kind of physical exercise is going to help you immensely. Not only will working out help you deal with depression or anxiety, it will also help clear your mind and gets your body moving again. Exercise has been proven to increase mental focus and clarity and it makes you look great at the same time. By boosting your self-esteem in a healthy and productive way, you're more ready to face the world than ever and reap the benefits of a killer body and a killer mind. Even though you're looking to ultimately reconnect with your ex, getting the once-over by other guys taking notice of all your positive attributes is a serious ego-boost and it will speed up your process of recovery.

- Enjoy Positive Influences:

If there was ever a time to spend some quality time with the family or your close-knit group of friends, this is it. How many times have you scraped one of your girlfriend's up off the ground after a nasty breakup and helped her get on her feet? Now it's your turn - and there's absolutely no shame in asking for help. Not only are most women experts in post-traumatic breakup pick-me-ups, they're eager to lend a hand whenever necessary. No one expects you to shoulder this pain all by yourself. It's okay to lean on people for support, no matter how independent you may be the rest of the time.

It may seem that these tips are more like a guide to getting over your ex - not to get him back. In a sense, you're right to think so. However, there are some key things that you need to consider. No woman is more attractive than one that seems out of reach. If your ex gets the impression that you're done with him and back on the market, he'll instantly be interested again.

Secondly, you need to avoid the trap of chasing him down. The more you try, the further away he'll get. That's what makes this plan so brilliant - it does the opposite of what he expects and makes him think that getting back together is his plan, not yours. Not only do you have the upper-hand, you also get to call the shots when he does come back. By maintaining equal footing and not allowing your self-respect to take a critical hit, you've given yourself even footing and made yourself a million times more attractive to your ex (and everyone else) than you would be otherwise.

Your Next Steps

Whilst these are effective steps to take, there is still more that you need to be aware of to get an ex boyfriend back. You need to now read up on the male psyche so that you can understand his behaviour and how he really feels about you after the break up. You will also need to learn how to make him want you again with specific psychological techniques.

You might be interested in knowing if he still has feelings for you. Look out for the signs he still loves you, then you will know if pursing him is the right thing to do.

Source: http://www.streetarticles.com/reconnecting/how-to-get-an-ex-boyfriend-back-the-smart-way

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Jobs in Jamaica: Graphic And Motion Designer

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Halloween candy: How much is too much?

ScienceDaily (Oct. 15, 2012) ? As we enter the sweet season, parents are worried kids might indulge their way to obesity by gobbling up too many Halloween candy. But having a little fun with candy once a year will not lead to childhood obesity, says Ken Haller, M.D., associate professor of pediatrics at Saint Louis University.

Halloween is a social time and kids want to be a part of their peer group by enjoying the perks of the holiday season. Haller says it's OK for parents to allow their kids to be part of this holiday spirit.

"Eating candy on Halloween is like taking a vacation, kids should not make it a habit," said Haller. "After the holiday they should feel like they have had enough candy and be willing to go back to their regular diet."

Haller says a parent should be in charge of deciding how many candy kids can have during Halloween. While eating candy are an important part of the culture and socialization during this holiday, parents also do not want their kids to end up in hospital emergency rooms with tummy aches.

An important lesson to teach kids this holiday season, Haller says, is eating in moderation. When kids come back from their grand trick or treating rounds, parents can go through their load of candy, portion them out, save some for the week, while freezing the rest for later. Parents should also feel free to knock out the ones that are very high in calories, especially ones with high fructose corn syrup content.

"Parents can have a discussion about this. Kids don't have to eat everything that comes back with them," Haller said. "None of these candy are wildly unhealthy or poisonous, they are just not nutritious."

If parents don't want their kids to eat all the candy at once, they can playfully communicate the message to them and avoid being strict about it. Kids want to know parents are on their side and are more likely to listen to them if they are positive about it.

"If parents are pleasant, upbeat and enthusiastic about how much candy their kids can have, kids might accept what they are advocating," Haller said.

Another way to minimize the amount of sweets kids eat is for parents to introduce them to the concept of sharing.

"Halloween candy can be used to teach kids an important ethical lesson -- we need to share with the ones who don't have what we do," Haller said. "This practice of sharing can be an introduction to Thanksgiving and then Christmas."

Lastly, it never hurts to remind kids about healthy dental habits. Haller says Halloween can be a good time to reinforce in kids a daily habit of brushing their teeth.

"Halloween is a great time for parents to buy their kids a brand new toothbrush," he said.

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The Perfect 'Blood & Bones' Halloween Party Invitations

Entry #1725, October 15, 2012

Looking for a creepy invite card design for your Halloween party? Well, you?re in the right page. This Bloody Invite Card design will certainly boost the excitement of your invited guest at your Halloween party. Thanks Design Sponge for these great ideas!

The perfect scary Halloween invitations

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Materials Needed

• Personal computer
• White paper for the card (letter size or 8.5? x 11?)
• Printer
• Glue
• Red glitters
• Scissors
• Spoon
• Pencil or marker

Ideas for your Halloween party this year

Directions

1. Create your test design for the card or you may download a handy-dandy invites template in PDF file at http://www.designsponge.com/2012/10/entertaining-bones-blood-halloween-invites.html/ds_bloody_invite. This is a pre-designed template that you can just print. Print the template or the one that you created using the paper or card stock.
2. Fold the paper accordingly so that it will look like an invite card. Make sure that the tests are still visible and in a perfect place after folding.
3. On the front of the card, draw a thick line of ?blood? with your glue, with a few lines ?trickling? down into the text below.
4. Using a spoon, slowly shake your red glitter over the glue on your card. Let sit for a few minutes, and then shake off the excess glitter.
5. Shower your card with the red glitters using a spoon. Slowly shake the spoon with the red glitters and allow it to stick on the glue. Allow the glue to dry for a few minutes before shaking the whole card to remove the excess red glitters. You can have a separate sheet of paper to hold the excess red glitters to be used for the other invite cards.
6. Write down the important details about the party like date, time and location. You may personalize it by writing the name and a simple message for the person invited.
7. Repeat the same procedure for the other cards you wanted to give.

What a ghoulish idea!

This should do it for this creepy Halloween invite card. This is an excellent way to capture the attention of your desired guests and increase the chance of accepting your invitation. Have a creepy Halloween party everyone!

For more Halloween ideas on Stagetecture, click here.

Source: http://stagetecture.com/2012/10/the-perfect-blood-bones-halloween-party-invitations/

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New Mexico License Plan Could Backfire in 2013

New Mexico's policy of giving illegal immigrants driver's licenses could soon come back to bite the state's law-abiding residents when stringent new federal requirements for IDs take effect in January, the governor is warning.

With a key provision of the federal Real ID Act set to kick in on Jan. 15, Gov. Susana Martinez claims there will be no way to differentiate between state IDs issued to residents who furnish federally-required documentation and those issued to illegal immigrants based on less stringent requirements. Martinez is predicting the federal government will have no choice come Jan. 15, 2013, but to no longer recognize her state's licenses as valid identification at airport ticket counters or for entry into federal buildings or complexes such as the state's large Kirtland and Holloman Air Force.

?It?s deeply concerning that New Mexicans who work at our labs, get on an airplane, or need to show identification at any other federal facility will no longer be able to use their driver?s license to do so."

- New Mexico Gov. Susana Martinez

?It?s deeply concerning that New Mexicans who work at our labs, get on an airplane, or need to show identification at any other federal facility will no longer be able to use their driver?s license to do so,? Martinez said after sending an Oct. 10 letter of inquiry about the act to Department of Homeland Security Director Janet Napolitano. ??This is not just an inconvenience; it is an incredible burden on our citizens and our businesses, and on our ability to be competitive with our neighboring states.?

The Real ID Act was passed in 2005, to ensure authenticity of documents used to acquire a state-issued driver's license or identification card, but much of its thrust has been delayed. More than 15 states have actually passed legislation to refuse compliance with the act.

New Mexico and Washington are the only states which currently issue driver's licenses to illegal immigrants, and in New Mexico, a utility bill and any form of identification -- such as the Matricula Consular card, which is issued to Mexican nationals by their consulates -- is still all that is currently required. Under the Real ID Act, the federal government requires proof of citizenship for a driver's license and may not recognize other state IDs unless they are supported by such?documents as a birth certificate, Social Security number or passport. States that did comply with the criteria for the Real ID Act have extended deadlines, but New Mexico did not file the required information for an extension. A DHS spokesperson said the act will be enforced.

"DHS has every intention of maintaining the January 15, 2013, deadline," said Marsha Catron, DHS spokesperson.?"This applies to the state meeting requirements, not an individual."

According to the DHS, if a state completes a checklist which brings them into compliance with the Real ID Act, they will grant an extension for driver?s licenses until Dec.1, 2014, for those born after Dec.1, 1964, and Dec.1, 2017, for those born before Dec. 1, 1964.

Greg Blair, spokesman for Martinez, says if the Jan. 15 deadline comes without any sort of extension, the most obvious implications on New Mexicans are how they are able to use their driver?s licenses.

?TSA security screeners will no longer accept a New Mexico driver?s license as valid ID to board a plane. Individuals who have to present ID to enter a federal building ? such as Los Alamos National Lab or Sandia National Lab, which employ thousands of New Mexicans ? will no longer be able to use their New Mexico driver?s license,? Blair said. ?The implications are far-reaching, costly and certainly inconvenient.?

In 2003, then-Gov. Bill Richardson, pushed through the law approving the issuance of driver's licenses to undocumented immigrants in an attempt to decrease the number of uninsured drivers in the state. After nearly 10 years, there is little evidence the measure achieved the goal, say critics.

While Mexican officials staunchly defend the validity and reliability of the documents used to obtain the card, Martinez said it opens a door for the possibility of fraud. An estimated 49,000 undocumented immigrants live in New Mexico, and since the law went into effect, some 80,000 licenses have been issued to foreign nationals, many of whom are not from the state.

In June, 30 people were indicted in an alleged illegal driver's license ring where illegal immigrants from South Carolina, Georgia and Tennessee came to New Mexico to get driver's licenses using fraudulent utility bills.

New Mexico state Sen. Tim Jennings (D), a staunch supporter of Richardson?s law, says he will to take a wait-and-see approach to find out if the DHS will actually enforce the act.

?They?ve postponed the Real ID Act in the past,? Jennings said. ?A lot of this comes about because the federal government fails to come up with coherent immigration reform then pushes it back on the states to decide what to do.?

He stands behind the premise of the law, which encouraged an increase in insured drivers in the state.

Jennings says he will not discount repealing the state?s law, but with the caveat Gov. Martinez and the federal government put into place a more reasonable policy.

Ironically, the next?New Mexico legislative session begins at noon on Jan. 15.

?Gov. Martinez will work with legislators to repeal the dangerous and misguided law that gives driver?s licenses to illegal immigrants,? Blair said.

Joseph J. Kolb is a freelance journalist in New Mexico

Source: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/10/15/new-mexicos-granting-licenses-to-illegals-to-backfire-in-2013-warns-governor/

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